The Good News

Posted 10 months, 1 week ago at 8:44 pm. 0 comments

Okay I can finally talk about what I had in the works the last several months, it is done and sealed.

1) Child support modification. I had several issues I needed to address.
a) My ex pays $800mo child support.
b) He has refused several requests from the state to cough up his financial information. He is very well off.
c) He was to pay 50% of S medical bills, that he has not done. I have had to pay $10k since 2003 myself, which financially about killed me. I had judgments, wages garnished, collections up the ass. I am almost done.
d) He was to carry her health insurance, he had poor insurance on her, and at times had lapses in coverage. He also dropped her back in November 2006 with out telling me, I had to go to court earlier this year and get the court order to carry her myself. He refused to give me her certificate of coverage from his insurance he had on her. This resulted in my daughter going into a large gap in insurance and now her ADHD will never be covered under her insurance.

I am so sick of his games. Recently I tried to file small claims to get back the several thousand he owes me in medical bills. Like the child he is, he hid from the civil process server. He was in the house and wouldn’t answer the door. I spent over $100 trying to get a judgment against him. This failed and, well I am not done.

That is the problem. My exhusband loves games, he loves to be irresponsible and likes to make my life hell. He seems to assume he has me in a corner and that I am helpless and can not get him. It has been hard as hell, but with the right moves and the right tactics I got him. In the end I am winning this, and he will not. It has taken me longer, but all I can say is in the end I am laughing.

My hearing for child support was October 31st, his birthday which made me laugh. I knew he would not respond and I knew he would not cough up his financial information. The state can not get the information from the IRS because the loser doesn’t file taxes. I made sure the IRS got his mortgage papers etc. LOL

2) I put in $1200mo for child support. I got it by default because he didn’t respond. He can object, but he would have to cough up all his financial assets and income. I have a lot of documents on his financial status and if he sends in any less, he is in trouble.

3) I also got 90% to 10% medical bill percentages. Meaning he pays 90% of her medical bills and I pay 10%. I know he is going to just pay child support and fail to pay her medical bills like he has since we got divorced. He thinks if he just avoids being served I can’t get him. I refuse to pay a shitload of medical debt the rest of my life because he was an idiot and violated the court order and dropped her insurance and didnt have the BALLS to tell me. I am sick of living like that.

4) The case is going to be filed in with the circuit court. I will just seek violation of a court order instead. I will then serve him by public notice in the paper. I will get my money, and it will attach to my child support. Meaning if he doesnt pay he will be in violation of paying child support, also have a judgment against his house. That sucks.

A judge can toss him in jail until he pays if he or she wishes.

The moral of the story? Don’t fuck with me.

Lies, Lies and More Lies

Posted 1 year, 2 months ago at 11:49 pm. 0 comments

The immigration bill is about to make a come back. CNN is reporting that

Thursday’s breakthrough came just hours after President Bush threw his support behind an amendment — sponsored by Republican Sens. Jon Kyl of Arizona and Lindsey Graham of South Carolina — that would provide an additional $4.4 billion for border security and work site immigration enforcement. The amendment is a bid to answer concerns from some GOP critics that the security aspects of the bill weren’t tough enough.

Umm. Okay we are suppose to believe this? What happened to that fence that was approved for the border and barely anything has been done? I am suppose to believe that this $4.4 billion in border security is going to close our borders? Show me the plan, put the plan in action and PROVE it before you sell it to me. I think most Republicans will agree. Well I can’t say most Republicans in Washington because they really are not on the same page anymore as true Republicans.

“We’re going to show the American people that the promises in this bill will be kept,” Bush said.

*cough* bullshit. I am having a hard time buying into this one.

Wanna be Famous and Nasty

Posted 1 year, 2 months ago at 11:27 pm. 0 comments

Perez Hilton is something else. I am not big into celebrities but I enjoy Perez Hilton’s site just because of how it is wrote. It is blunt to the point and comical. Yet, at the same time I can’t stand Perez personally. He sits there and knocks all these celebrities for how they dress and look at him. He dresses like a douche himself. His sense of style of a complete mess and I don’t even understand what he is striving for. It is a complete wreck! I think you should have a sense of style before you judge others sense of style.

Furthermore into the situation. I do not care that Perez is a outspoken gay. Yet, I laugh that he pushes and pushes for people like Anderson Cooper to just come out and talk about being gay. Like Cooper’s life will not be full circle unless he is in the media talking about gay sex. I actually respect Anderson Cooper for NOT doing it. I don’t think anyone needs to sit and talk about their sex lives in the media. Anderson gives the news, I don’t want to hear about his sex life. He realizes people don’t watch him for his sex life but he wants them to obviously focus on him and his job. Amazing isn’t it?

You can be gay, hold a great career with out putting the words I’m gay into every other sentence. Being gay should be as casual as being straight. Do your job.

Dixie Chicks are another example. Just shut up and sing. They are musicians not political speakers. All people listen to your music and if you sit there and start bashing on politics you are going to piss people off. During a concert is not a time to stress your political views. Freedom of speech? I don’t care if they say it. Just don’t be all pissed off and upset when you get a back lash for it. Common sense goes a long ways.

Okay, yes back to Perez. He is being shoved into the famous spotlight which I don’t know. He is popular and has a decent site but he seriously needs to clean up, he looks like a homeless douche bag himself.